I’m pleased to announce that this is the kick-off post of my “Introvert Interviews” series. Every other week I’ll be interviewing introverts working in various fields and talking to them about introversion and how it effects them.
Today’s Introvert Interviews is with Sara Devine. Sara describes herself as a “true music mama.” She’s the mother of two young children and has a music career which brings her around the world.
You wrote on your blog that quiet children in a big family usually get the least amount of attention. How have you used this insight in your music career?
Because of my upbringing, I try not to fight my quiet nature too much. I save my voice for singing, as much as I can. This is good to do anyway, as a singer. But when I do need to speak, I try to make sure thereʼs a reason. If I am motivated I will gladly say whatʼs on my mind. But I wonʼt shout it. Instead, I like to let my work speak for me first. If I have done a great job, then I rarely have to raise my voice and people will just listen.
What does it feel like singing in front of a large audience?
I love it. I feel like quietness shows its power best then. I sing a duet with Alejandro Sanz and there is a sort of big finale to that duet. It is my job, when the music stops, the audience waits quietly and Alejandro himself quietly looks at me as I riff on a big extended ending for ʻLooking for Paradise.ʼ There are many moments on stage, some are nerve wracking, like when I have to do complicated dance steps. But singing comes so naturally I love it here or there, I love it anywhere!
What is it like doing music gigs all over the world?
I love seeing new places, eating new food, having new experiences so the fact that my voice has taken me far away at times, is perfect for me.
How much of an effect has your introversion had on your music?
It has made me very thoughtful about my songwriting. I like focusing on my reflections, and all the things I learn when I can reflect quietly. Writing in general, my novel or my songs, makes me feel this way. I can take my time to find the best words to express my feelings. I know that I wonʼt get nervous about speaking or become tongue-tied or anything, because itʼs written exactly the way I want to say it.
If you were able to travel back in time, is there any advice you would give to your younger introverted self?
Yes. In auditions, when it seems to be the judgeʼs aim to make you nervous, I would say donʼt try to be something youʼre not. Go ahead and sing, softly at first, caressing the notes the way you want and when your loud moment comes, it will be that much greater. Know yourself and use those dynamics. Thatʼs where youʼre most powerful. And if they donʼt like it, forget them! It probably wouldnʼt have been a great relationship anyway!
How do you recharge your batteries?
Home is the best place in the world. My friends and family know me as homebody. But if I canʼt go home I find moments to be alone. I admit that I go to the bathroom and linger sometimes.
How do you handle people pressuring you to be more outgoing?
If I agree that the situation demands it, then I will try. Iʼll just be prepared to rest a lot before an after those events.
Where can people find out more about you?
www.saradevine.com
